This is a overwhelming and time consuming past time. To love the unavailable person and make love to the thought of their attention like nothing else matters. For example, im a young woman, who loves married men, gay men, straight women... and to get even more sick, to love to a person who is too good or too amazing, thinking "ill just watch them from afar". To crush is to masochistically harm the heart by letting it go free. p.s. i love you Lesly, and i will always Love you Brady L.